When dating, who should pay for food. For couples, whether those who have been dating for a long time or who are new to dating, the moment to pay a bill is the most confusing time. The problem is not because there is no money, but who has to pay. Whether as a guy or girl, you always waver. However, you never discuss, so misunderstandings often occur. Especially in the party of men who often become victims and have to pay all the bills. Not infrequently the guys think "Crazy, this is a really cute girl. How come she didn't offer herself?" In fact, your girl is worried that if she offers herself, you are offended. If you are getting a bonus, lottery, or whatever, of course you as a guy must pay.
When you want to surprise suddenly without an event or any special day, of course you are also obliged to pay as a surprise. For example, this week the first guy who paid. Next week, it's the turn of the girl who pays. But remember, act fairly. Don't let the date be out of balance. For example, if your partner is paying, you are dating an expensive restaurant. When you pay, you ask for a date at the shop. The difference is, you change the pay on the date of the day.
For example, your partner pays for lunch, while you pay for the movie and popcorn ticket. There are many other options. The easiest way to avoid confusion is to pay for it yourself. You will not depend on each other, and not burden each other too. You are also more comfortable if you pay for yourself. You can also save money by looking for free dating activities. For example, take a walk together in the park, enjoy fresh air, then sit back and relax on a park bench. You two can save money on special dates, you know!
The last suggestion is to discuss this at the beginning of courtship. So, you know each other's thoughts, and can establish a fair way for both parties. Even though the guy can pay for all the dates at any time, but you have not been fully dependent on your boyfriend until you become a spouse to live or marry him. Better, do not let debt or feelings be used by a partner. Pay on your own or alternately, that's the best!